5 Secrets of Seduction to Arouse Your Partner
There are alternative ways ofto expressing your love to your partner other than quoting the words I Love You". Sometimes the "fizz" can easily disappear in our relationship, so that the pounding of your heart with excitement is no longer felt.
How do we retrieve that love that wraps around us and penetrates our thoughts? Actions speak louder than words, they say, so here are 5 secrets to help you on your way.
1 - Flirt
This is a light-hearted seduction with the intention of conveying love; so what about sending a sexy text message? This reminds your partner that you are thinking about her/him. It also increases anticipation so that you look forward to seeing each other more (or, dare I say, more of each other?) when you return home from work.
2 - Candles
Feng Shui says the seduction candle is coloured red, and the ingredients are musk, patchouli, cedar, juniper and musk. This secret of seduction can retuurn the romance to your relationship. Turn off the lights and fill your room with lighted scented candles. The results are well worth the effort!
3 - Food
They say that "The way to a man's heart is through his stomach"; however this is also thought to be true of women. Show your love by cooking up a surprise dinner for two. Create a seductive love nest with soft music, flowers and incense. Aphrodisiac foods such as oysters, chocolate, figs, chili, honey and walnuts are said to stimulate the hormones and bring back a bit of spice to your relationship..
4 - Love Letters and Poems
Why not leave a sexy note for your loved one? This can be posted in the kitchen or bathroom before you go to work. You could also hide a love poem under the pillow, so that your partner can find it at night before bedtime or even first thing in the morning. This will stir up a feeling of love in the privacy of the bedroom, as well as in your relationship. You can take inspiration from poetry books or music.
5 - Get Away
There can be many distractions in your relationship, such as children or work. Treat your loved one to a short break away. Try a health spa or even just a night in a hotel as a break from the normal routine, in a different environment where you can relax and spend some uninterrupted time with each other.
Whatever you choose, make it something different. Try to make sure of no interruptions such as telephone calls or children. Be alone and make it an occasion just for the two of you. A bit of flirting with your partner never does any harm.